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My quest to achieve and maintain a debt-free lifestyle.

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Bad News on the Homefront

I haven’t been able to post in a long time.  My wife and I have been having problems for a while, and we have decided to separate.  I wish there was a specific, tangible reason for our rough patch.  Instead, I think we just grew apart over time, and after spending many months working with a therapist, I am comfortable saying that we gave it our best shot.  On the bright side, there are no hard feelings, no loud arguments, and we have nothing really to split between us, except the cats.

This will obviously have a significant impact on our finances as individuals.  I am working through the details, but it shouldn’t hurt too much, I suppose.  I’ll update more once we finalize all of the details.   Until then, I probably won’t be around much for a while.

Saturday Afternoon Reading

I had a really good afternoon. I received an extra paycheck this month courtesy of the Army Reserve from a week-long class that I attended. Since I used vacation time for the time I lost at work, the Army check made for a nice $650 bonus. On top of that, I worked a couple extra shifts to pull in an extra $400. Earlier this week, I filed an FSA voucher for medical receipts from the last couple of months for another $620. The resulting mini-windfall just knocked $748 off the USAA Mastercard and added $800 to our savings accounts. Unfortunately for the savings balance, but fortunately for us, I will be taking a chunk of that $800 to book our flight and hotel for our vacation in December. At least this time around we’re using cash on hand and not swiping the plastic.

Some articles I flagged to re-read this week:

I forwarded When a sale isn’t really a sale by Karen Datko at Smart Spending to a few relatives as soon as I read it the other day. As I read the article, I could picture them dragging me through the mall for hours at a time. They are drawn like moths to a lightbulb to the big Sale posters strategically placed at the entrance of each store.

I’ve been very busy with work this week, and finally got the chance to read through the Carnival of Debt Reduction posted at No Credit Needed.

A closer look at our debt.

As of 8/23/2008, our debt looks like this:

Debt - $52,148.16
     - Credit Cards:
          - Universal - $7,380.00 (2.15%)
          - Citi - $2,920.20 (7.74%)
          - USAA - $12,200.00 (8.90%)
     - Auto Loans
          - Toyota - $13,707.53 (7.40%)
          - Volkswagen - $11,311.96 (5.90%)
     - School Loans
          - Direct - $4,153.47 (5.9%)
     - Other Debt
          - Medical - $475.00 (0.0%)

It is definitely overwhelming to look at over $52,000 in debt.  It is very easy to panic, to wonder where it all came from, to seriously doubt that we will ever pay off that much money.  I definitely feel the weight of the debt every day.  It often catches me off guard, usually as I am pulling my wallet out to pay for something, anything, with the sudden “do I really need this” thought that (hopefully) puts the brakes on whatever purchase I am trying to accomplish.  I’ve carried too much debt since I was a freshman in college, from the day I signed up for my first credit card.  Sure, initially I was good about paying the balance every month, but once I got the taste of “deferred payments,” the spiral began.

It is helpful to understand where the debt came from, to know why it happened, and unlike too many consumers now, I freely accept that it is my fault.  I don’t expect, and I certainly will not welcome, outside assistance or government programs to help me with pay off things that I bought.  But as helpful as it is to understand where the debt came from, that doesn’t answer the more pressing question: what to do with the debt from here.  Eliminating the debt will take patience, time, and determination - and buy-in and cooperation from my wife.

The Debt Elimination Plan

I’ve been calling this my Debt Reduction Plan for a while, but I decided that I won’t settle for just reducing the debt - I want it gone.  My Debt Elimination Plan has been around for almost a year - I first put pen to paper on the topic in October of 2007.  I realized that for years I had been telling myself that I would pay off the debt “later” - when I finished school, when I got a different job, when I reached some vague milestone that never materialized  - and that “later” would never come.

I wish I could say that having the Debt Elimination (Reduction) Plan for almost a year had helped us make measurable progress on reducing and eventually eliminating our debt.  I can say that from October 2007 through April 2008 we knocked $2,268 off the credit card balances, increased our savings by $1,175, and boosted our taxable and non-taxable investments by $2,300.  So what happened between May 2008 and today?  Chaos.  Financial anarchy.  A complete loss of focus.  My wife and I hit a rough patch in our relationship.  Our temporary drop in compatibility was driven by a multitude of reasons, though personal finance was right up there in the list.  In the midst of debating whether we should stay together or separate, and ultimately a short “trial separation,” we both lost control of our spending, me more than her, and in three short months we managed to undo the bulk of what progress we had made.

Our Debt Elimination Plan is based on the same three principles that form the foundation of every debt reduction/elimination plan out there: Responsible Spending, Budgeted Savings, and Lots of Debt Payments.  This is essentially the same plan that we started with in October 2007, but this time around, my wife and I are making the extra effort to work together, stay connected, and keep each other on track.  In the past, I handled the majority of the finances and bills, and no matter how hard I tried, couldn’t get her to sit down with me to talk about money.  It wasn’t that she was intentionally undermining our financial health, but by not taking an interest in our finances, she just didn’t know.  We’ve established that every other Friday, on payday, we will have a standing date to review our income, plan our expenses for the two weeks, and figure out what money to transfer where (more on the distribution of accounts later).  Hopefully, by having us both take a more active role in determining the budget, it will be far easier to subscribe to the budget without so many reservations.

Our Current Debts

Our current debt breaks down as:
     - 43% Credit Cards
     - 48% Auto Loans
     - 8% School Loans
     - 1% Medical Debt

The percentages next to each balance above reflects the APR on the card.  The Universal Card is still locked with a decent APR after a balance transfer offer that is good until paid.  The USAA and Citi cards are variable, but with the current interest rates are still tolerable.  The Toyota loan was a mistake, I admit, but nevertheless a 66 month term at 7.4%.  The VW loan was a little better with a 48 month term at 5.9%.  The student loan has an unrealistically long term, I believe 10 years, at 5.9%.  The medical debt will be paid in full after the next payment.

To maximize the impact of each payment, and in an effort to save every penny of finance charges that I can (a somewhat laughable gesture, as my aversion to finance charges did nothing to encourage me to keep the balances down in the first place), I am currently focusing all extra debt payments, after all of the minimum payments are met, on the highest interest rate, the USAA Card.

The Next Steps

Our Debt Elimination Plan starts with Responsible Spending, which can be described as spending less than we earn by seeking the best deals on the things that we need to buy and being careful not to buy everything that we want to buy.  By including our Savings in our budget, and transferring that money to the savings accounts first, we can get ourselves into a better position to avoid future debt with an emergency fund and savings for planned purchases.  Both Responsible Spending and Budgeted Savings will keep us from further debt while we take any excess money whenever it should appear and making lots and lots of Debt Payments.

Net Worth Update - 8/23/2008

As I’ve mentioned before, we had some personal difficulties over the last couple of months that really got in the way of our financial health.  We are slowly getting ourselves back on track and although we haven’t made much progress yet, I can see the momentum building.

Here is the Net Worth Update as of 8/23/2008.

Debt - $52,148.16
     - Credit Cards:
          - Universal - $7,380.00 (2.15%)
          - Citi - $2,920.20 (7.74%)
          - USAA - $12,200.00 (8.90%)
     - Auto Loans
          - Toyota - $13,707.53 (7.40%)
          - Volkswagen - $11,311.96 (5.90%)
     - School Loans
          - Direct - $4,153.47 (5.9%)
     - Other Debt
          - Medical - $475.00 (0.0%)
Savings - $2,783.89
     - Vacation Fund (ING) - $1,351.48
     - Stuff Fund (ING) - $225.95
     - Overdraft Fund (USAA) - $500.85
     - Emergency Fund (UFB) - $705.61
Investments - $2,851.69
     - Edward Jones - $2,143.91
     - Prosper - $186.15
     - LendingClub - $155.58
     - USAA Brokerage - $366.05
Retirement Savings - $3,561.60
     - 401(k) - $1,940.80
     - Roth IRA - $373.68
     - Thrift Savings Plan - $1,247.12
Assets - $23,600.00
     - Toyota Scion - $12,385.00
     - VW Jetta - $11,215.00
Net Worth - $19,350.98 (+7.7% since 8/9/2008)

Welcome to MyDebtQuest.com!

I have been contemplating setting up a domain for MyDebtQuest for quite some time, and finally decided to bite the bullet and get it done.  I have no grandiose ideas about fame or recognition, but it does feel good to have “my own” weblog on “my own” site.

Over the next few days I am going to play around with the interface and the widgets, and hopefully will find the groove I’ve been seeking to post more regularly.  My goal is to hit three posts per week by the end of the month, mostly linkages and Net Worth updates initially but moving towards more substantial posts as time goes on.

Net Worth Update - 8/9/2008

We strayed from our personal finance goals quite a bit over the last couple of months in the face of some difficult times between us.  We’re working through those issues, and we’re back to taking care of our financial health with more zeal than before.

Here is the Net Worth Update as of 8/9/2008, which I am using as a baseline for our future progress.

Debt - $52,147.96
     - Credit Cards:
          - Universal - $7,490.00 (2.15%)
          - Citi - $2,710.00 (7.74%)
          - USAA - $12,300.00 (8.90%)
     - Auto Loans
          - Toyota - $13,707.53 (7.40%)
          - Volkswagen - $11,311.96 (5.90%)
     - School Loans
          - Direct - $4,153.47 (5.9%)
     - Other Debt
          - Medical - $475.00 (0.0%)
Savings - $2,632.29
     - Emergency Fund (UFB Direct) - $654.01
     - Vacation Fund (ING Direct) - $1,301.48
     - Short Term Savings (USAA) - $500.85
     - Household Purchase Fund (USAA) - $175.95
Investments - $2,815.05
     - Edward Jones - $2,099.20
     - Prosper - $184.88
     - LendingClub - $154.54
     - USAA Brokerage - $376.43
Retirement Savings - $2,115.07
     - 401(k) - $1,787.27
     - Roth IRA - $327.80
Assets - $23,600.00
     - Toyota Scion - $12,385.00
     - VW Jetta - $11,215.00
Net Worth - $20,985.55

A fresh start.

It has been several months since I actually posted here.  Things in my life took several unexpected turns, and my wife and I hit quite the rough patch in our marriage.  Many issues have come between us, from entertainment to money, and we will have to put some serious time into our relationship to work through them.  Unfortunately, with the difficulties between us, the progress we made towards our financial goals took a very back burner.

In order to not lose hope, I’ve cleared the blog and all of the progress, and we’re using the same “fresh start” approach for both our relationship and our finances.  Starting this week, we have a “money date” on Sunday evenings to sit down and review our budget and our income and expenses for the week.

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